Frigidity
Frigidity or hypolibidemia, anaphrodisia – sexual dysfunction, which is expressed in the complete or partial absence of sexual desire, as well as indifference during sex.
reasons
Congenital anomalies and defects of the genitals
Serious dysfunctions of the hormonal system – ovarian insufficiency
Obesity of large degrees
Nervous and mental disorders
Artificial termination of pregnancy – abortion
Rape
Gynecological diseases are both acute (in the past) and chronic
Pregnancy (temporary physiological hypolibidemia)
Stress, overwork, mental stress
Incomplete sexual life
Depression
FACTORS OF INFERIORITY OF SEXUAL LIFE
Bad impressions after defloration with a rude attitude of a man
Vulgar attitude to sex among the male population (as a need, while for a woman it is a whole ritual)
Poor relationship with a partner not only in bed, but also in everyday life
Impotence in a partner can significantly reduce a woman’s sex drive
Prolonged sexual relations that do not bring sexual satisfaction to a woman, as a result of which blood and lymph stagnate in the pelvis, provoking many gynecological problems: pain, copious menstrual bleeding, white
symptoms
Usually frigidity is not associated with disorders of the genitals. A woman experiences dissatisfaction with sex, is apathetic, avoids sexual contact. Constantly or intermittently complains of unexplained fatigue, headaches. There may be unpleasant pulling sensations in the lower abdomen. Sometimes a person can have a lot of sexual relations with a partner (partners) and even get satisfaction from them, but will never initiate sexual intercourse. Alcohol abuse and drug addiction also significantly reduce the level of sexual attraction to a partner. With a complete loss of attraction, the so-called asexuality develops.
Asexuality is the self–determination of a person who does not experience any sexual attraction to a partner, partners. At the same time, asexuality differs from antisexuality – a negative attitude to sex in general.
diagnostics
If a woman is suspected of frigidity, it is recommended to consult an experienced sexologist. If necessary, consultations with a gynecologist (examination, smear collection), a psychotherapist, an endocrinologist are possible to determine the true causes of frigidity.
treatment
The success of treatment cannot be positive if the woman does not have the desire to examine and treat him. It is very important to establish a trusting relationship with the attending physician, psychological training of a woman and even in some cases her partner. A woman should want and be ready not only to give affection and love to her man, but also to accept, while experiencing pleasure and satisfaction. Sometimes, to improve the quality of sexual life, it is enough to change the intimate environment, bring new changes in sexual life, which may well just be bored and become commonplace. The patience of the second partner also has a beneficial effect on a woman’s libido. Some sexologists claim that frigidity is a problem of both partners. In this case, psychotherapy and further treatment are carried out not only for women, but also for men.
PREVENTION OF FRIGIDITY
Maximum comfort and enslavement in sexual life give both partners to give and receive affection, satisfaction. A man should focus his attention not only on sexual intercourse as an act of some kind of action, but also on the environment surrounding the couple at this moment, comfort. In the relationship between a man and a woman, there should be no place for fear, understatement and other negative aspects.
